What is our
fatal behavior in life that can be used against us by our opponents or even
so-called ‘love ones’? Forget about NLP, hypnotism, body readings and the rest
of the modern day techniques… I am not saying that those are no good but a
Ninja just don’t give a dime to notice someone that crossed his arms in front
of his chest, or if a person is lying during a conversation… A Ninja seeks to
penetrate into our ‘comfort zone’ by a few types of simple mind reading techniques.
Of course,
the olden days Ninjas are no more out there; another new breed of urban Ninjas:
salesmen and women, promoters, swindlers etc. though of different origins, use
the same of mind reading technique that was once employed by the Ninjas of the
old.
So what is
our fatal behavior that could blindfold us from being deceived and backstabbed
and yet we still pad on the person’s shoulder and call him/her good
brother/sister? Well, the key is very simple:
Our hobbies/interests
Perhaps
some of us have made used of the below technique:
For
example:
Your boss
likes to play golf, you are the only person amongst many that can play good
golf; naturally you would also be your boss’s best pal and you would also climb
up the corporate ladders very fast. This is because you have penetrated deep
into your boss’s comfort zone. Things would get more excited when you have
penetrated into a few bosses’ comfort zones and that’s when you become the
master puppeteer or your bosses. It is at this time that you can do your magic
to create sabotage, slandering, backstabbing ore even do favors to the persons
you like… The best person playing this kind of games would be the: SECRETARIES!
Hahaha! So
beware of these people. Others possible folks would be the receptionist in your
office for she might guide your important customers to her favorite
salesperson. I have seen many cases in local and MNCs!
It is not
difficult to stop such intrusions but not many people can avoid them especially
when the opponent’s network is formed in your office. Whatever the situation
is, please remember this:
There is no free
lunch!
If you are
of someone of importance, people would try many ways to get near you by
offering ‘free’ lunch and in particular sexual favors. Sexual favors in office
politics is a big taboo and a no-no whatever the reasons are; and if you are
the boss, you one night stand might be your last night stand on the brim of the
office roof! Think about it or just retire and lead a simple life…
Last but
not least:
It is not easy to be
easy; it is not hard to be hard!
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